Jayson Schivley, LMFT

Rebuild Trust

You’re stuck in the same conflict—and nothing is changing.

Couples therapy in California using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for high-conflict couples and couples impacted by addiction, focused on rebuilding trust and connection.

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Most couples I work with aren’t lacking effort—they’re exhausted from trying.

You may find yourselves having the same argument over and over, feeling disconnected despite trying to fix things, or struggling to rebuild trust after addiction or repeated conflict.

At a certain point, it stops being about trying harder—and starts being about understanding what’s actually happening between you.

Why You Feel So Stuck

It’s not just what you’re arguing about—it’s the pattern underneath it.

Often, one partner pushes to talk things through while the other pulls back or shuts down. The more one pushes, the more the other withdraws, and the cycle repeats.

Over time, this pattern creates distance, frustration, and a breakdown in trust—no matter how much you both want things to improve.

How I Can Help

In our work together, we focus on slowing these moments down, understanding what’s happening in real time, and creating new ways of responding to each other.

This isn’t just about talking through problems—it’s about changing the interactions that keep your relationship stuck.

Who I Help

I work with couples who are:

My approach is structured, direct, and focused on creating meaningful change.

I take an active role in sessions—helping you identify patterns, stay engaged in the process, and build new ways of communicating that lead to real progress.

Getting Started

If you’re ready to approach your relationship in a different way, the next step is to schedule a consultation.

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